That's an odd first post. You must've been reading David Benatar.
You were right in deducing that I read Benatar as well as Ligotti and others who wrote, blogged or vlogged about the subject (I also maintain a forum and blog myself about it).
Your second sentence is odd, since it doesn't follow from antinatalism that depression and (by association?) suicidal ideation is rational for someone who is tired of life.
It doesn't follow in
all cases but in does in my case and in the case of many others. I am more of an efilist (google it :)) than an antinatalist to be honest with you (even though they're interrelated).
Even Benatar (author of "Better Never to have Been") thinks that once you have life, there are (or at least, can be) reasons to continue getting on with it, and that there is value in doing so.
Perhaps only insofar as it concerns spreading the AN message and that reproduction is the worst crime imaginable as the sole reason for all problems. All other reasons, while applicable, would merely be artificial projections of the need/desire mechanism that has no reason for existence.
It's a non-sequitur to suppose that the view that it would be better if no one were ever born (that is what antinatalism is) supports the view that suicide (or depression) is rational.
Not its not. Its very rational and one follows the other smoothly. Being an antinatalist/efilist and not remaining pessimistic and considering suicide as all rest of society considers it is the non-sequitur. While I am not saying all AN should necessarily want to die, its certainly rational and there can be no counterarguments for why an AN shouldn't do it if he reached that sort of insight about everything (apart from the usual: family, love and other mush).
However, I don't entirely disagree with the sentiment that there can be good reasons to end one's life -- of course there can be -- great suffering is one such reason (though it is unclear just how much counts as a justification, nor is it clear whether actual suffering matters or just perceived suffering).
Any reason is good enough. With all due respect, no one has any right to tell others what reasons they should have for committing suicide or what reasons are acceptable and what reasons are unacceptable - its their lives and their lives alone and they are at liberty to do whatever they want with it, including the ultimate act of suicide. Whether its due to terminal illness or prolonged depression is surely none of our business. That's why euthnasia should necessarily include everyone and not just the terminally sick. Its sickening what type of disgusting society we live in.
I don't think we should *merely* try to convince others to live... but if we see reasons why another could live a valuable life, those reasons count as reasons why that person MAY want to continue living, and there's surely nothing wrong with seeing whether people are aware of these reasons, or if they are, why they don't see them as reasons to continue on, when we do.
Sure you could try. But if they decide to refuse your "life-heroine" injections, you should then stop trying to convince them.
Surely you don't think individuals always know what's best for themselves and are never wrong about what reasons they have?
People who are antinatalists/efilists are already smart enough to understand what life is all about and are not going to be bought in by the typical mush people live for so yes these people like me are never wrong about reasons. Others very well could be (i.e. sudden loss, separation, etc) but as I replied above, you can try to convince them to live but if their problems bring them to the ultimate point of adopting AN/Efilism, then I am afraid your efforts will be in vain.
I don't want to engage in self-aggrandizement, but AN like me and others I know would never be convinced that suicide is irrational and to anyone who asks me "why shouldn't I kill myself?" I would reply "if you can muster the courage to do the act, then go ahead. Otherwise, you will have to struggle till you die and don't let others tell you it will get any better because the fundamentals are there to ensure that suffering will always be there with you in some shape or form"