that's pretty heavy. I can relate to having impossible siblings, even though mine are 8 and 12 years older than me they often act as if they're 25 years younger. They haven't pulled anything like this though.Warped wrote:My sister
She has been away for 7 years now, no contact, nothing. We had no clue where she is, if she is still alive, we texted her in the first years, no response. I gave up. I have my own life, my family. I just could not care anymore.
Now she wrote a letter to my other sister claiming money from us. And not a bit, a lot. She will lose her flat, has no job, no money, nothing. No word why she refused to keep in contact with us for those 7 years.
What the hell does she expect us to do? What would you do? It makes no sense to give her the money (even if we had it available) It is like throwing it into the garbage. She never had a proper job, never "liked" to work. She was in hospital for 5 months, no word why.
I am speechless.
I would ask her to explain why she's acted this way in the past 7 years and see if her story makes sense and then take it from there. And if it doesn't make sense and she seems to be just using you then I'd consider if that's a good foundation for having any kind of relationship with her.
